Best Friend Questionnaire: Printable Fill-In Version

A best friend questionnaire is different from a quiz: nobody's scored, there's no right answer, and the point isn't to test anyone — it's to get something written down that you can read back later, use in a speech, or turn into a keepsake. Below is a 30-question printable version you can copy straight into a document, plus what's actually worth doing with the answers afterwards. (If what you actually want is a scored game with an answer key, WhatsQuiz can build one from a real WhatsApp chat export — see the questionnaire's quiz cousin linked at the bottom.)

What's the difference between a questionnaire and a quiz here?

A quiz is played by someone else, guessing what the friend would say. A questionnaire is filled in by the friend themselves, about themselves, with no guessing involved. It's the format for birthday keepsakes, hen-do memory books, and "get to know you again" catch-ups — not for a competitive party game.

The printable questionnaire (30 questions)

Copy this straight into a doc. Leave 2-3 lines of space under each question if printing.

About them, right now

  1. What's your current go-to comfort food?
  2. What's a song you can't stop playing at the moment?
  3. What's something you're looking forward to this year?
  4. What's a small thing that made you happy this week?
  5. What's the last thing you bought that you didn't need but don't regret?
  6. What's your current biggest source of stress?
  7. What app do you spend the most time on right now?
  8. What's a habit you're trying to build or break?

About growing up

  1. What's your earliest clear memory?
  2. What did you want to be when you were young?
  3. What's your best memory from school?
  4. What's a rule your parents had that you've kept or dropped?
  5. What's the bravest thing you did as a teenager?
  6. Who was your childhood best friend, and are you still in touch?
  7. What's one thing you wish you'd been told earlier in life?

About your friendship

  1. What's your favourite memory of us together?
  2. What's the trip or plan you still talk about doing together?
  3. What's something I do that always makes you laugh?
  4. What's a moment you knew this friendship was going to last?
  5. What's something you've never told me but might tell me now?
  6. What's a piece of advice I gave you that actually stuck?
  7. What's something you'd want me to know if we somehow lost touch?

Opinions and hopes

  1. What's a book, film, or show everyone should experience once?
  2. What's your honest opinion of the group chat right now?
  3. Where do you see yourself in five years?
  4. What's a fear you're actively working on?
  5. What's the best piece of advice you've ever received?
  6. What's something you're proud of that you rarely say out loud?
  7. What's a goal for this year you haven't told many people?
  8. If you could tell your younger self one thing, what would it be?

What should you actually do with a filled-in questionnaire?

The paper on its own is nice; it's more useful if you plan for one of these afterward:

  • Keepsake. Fold it into a birthday card or frame the page — it reads better in five years than any gift.
  • Speech material. Questions 16-22 are close to ready-made lines for a best man speech, maid of honour toast, or milestone birthday tribute. See wedding speech for how to weave answers like these into a full script.
  • A memory book. If several friends fill in the same 30 questions independently, you get a genuinely comparable set of answers worth compiling into one document — useful for a hen do, a milestone birthday, or a leaving do.
  • A conversation starter, not an archive. Read the answers together rather than filing them away. The value is mostly in the follow-up questions it prompts, not the sheet itself.

When should this be a questionnaire instead of a quiz?

Use the questionnaire when the goal is reflection, not competition — birthdays, leaving parties, or a quiet catch-up after time apart. Switch to a scored format, like the best friend quiz with an answer key or best friend trivia, when the goal is a party activity with a winner. Both use similar questions; the difference is entirely in how you use the answers afterwards.

Can I build a version that's already personal instead of generic?

Yes. If you and your best friend share a WhatsApp group chat, upload the export to WhatsQuiz and it will generate questions from things you've actually said to each other, rather than a generic template. It's a stronger starting point for a speech or keepsake because the material is already true and specific to your friendship.

Frequently asked questions

Is this a quiz or a questionnaire?

A questionnaire — there's no scoring or right answer. Each friend fills it in about themselves, and it's read or compared afterwards rather than marked.

How do I actually print this?

Copy the questions into a document, add space under each one, and print. No special formatting needed — a plain numbered list works fine.

What's the best use for a completed questionnaire?

A keepsake gift (framed, in a card, or in a scrapbook), a speech-writing source, or a light activity at a birthday or hen do before the main games start.

Can I send it digitally instead of printing?

Yes — paste it into a shared doc or a simple form. It works the same either way; printable just means it's copy-and-paste ready.

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